When interacting with people around this project try to assume the best of them. If something seems offensive start by assuming you've misunderstood. Treat others as you would wish them to treat you.
We all possess the capacity to chose how we feel as well as how we react. Other people cannot "make" you feel bad or "hurt" your feelings unless you allow them to. Choose to take responsibility for your own mental state and exercise your agency. Do not give other people power over you that they do not have; the power to trigger you. You have the ability to ignore most anything. Use it.