This is the software I like to have on various platforms, and is a work in progress (and so may morph wildly over time according to my personal whims) that I've started mostly for my own use. Recently I used this list in rebuilding my personal workstation after an awful day. Documentation saves (as do backups)!
My personal workstation and laptop are currently running Ubuntu Desktop 22.04 LTS, moderately tailored for my own use.
I prefer the latest vendor official packages or binaries when I can can find them (except where it would be too disruptive: like when they overwrite critical dependencies), but distro packages still form the backbone of my software loadout. The traditional packaging systems (apt for .deb under Ubuntu, and dnf for .rpm under RedHat) can be frustrating to work with, but the systems that seek to replace them (flatpak and snap) are not a panacea by any means (both continue to have trouble with CLI integration