Using Ubuntu 22.04 graphical session on x11 (but very few diff with wayland)
With this setup the nuc can play 4k60fps video in Kodi, Firefox, Chrome without any issue.
apt-get install -qy \
intel-gpu-tools intel-media-va-driver-non-free \
intel-microcode vainfo libva2 libva-x11-2
cat < /etc/modprobe.d/i915.conf