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What is Collaboration?

Working in a team environment typically involves collaborating with others to solve problems and develop innovative solutions. Behaving collaboratively includes valuing the contributions of others, brainstorming ideas with team members, and sharing tasks to get work done efficiently. For example, using social media technology, team members can debate alternatives to problems by contributing to wikis, blogs or forums.

http://smallbusiness.chron.com/work-effectively-team-environment-57331.html

  • Collaboration necessitates knowing your own limits
  • Collaboration builds trust

http://www.personalbrandingblog.com/collaborating-with-others-is-a-key-to-success/

What are some traits I hadn't considered?

Selections from a full list at http://www.nottingham.ac.uk/hr/guidesandsupport/performanceatwork/pdpr/pdpr-behavioural-competency-guide/working-together/collaborating-with-other.aspx

Co-operates with colleagues

  • Sees self as a member of a team
  • Fulfils designated role as a team member

Is a good team player

  • Accepts that others have a valid point of view and shows respect for others' intelligence

Solicits input from others

  • Values, calls upon and utilises the experience and expertise of colleagues
  • Willingly learns from other team members

Encourages others

  • Identifies what motivates different individuals and uses this knowledge to improve performance
  • Empowers other members of the team, making them feel strong and important

Proactively builds team spirit

  • Acts to promote a friendly climate, good morale and co-operation
  • Encourages individuals to address and resolve conflicts within the team

Negative indicators

  • Prefers to work alone rather than as a member of a team
  • Fails to share information with other people that would enable them to do their job more effectively
  • Selectively co-operates
  • Allows individual differences to adversely affect the team/way team members work together

What are some surprising things about teams?

Safe environments that enable honesty are important

Avoid letting people make soft decisions. (Soft decisions are those calculated not to hurt peoples feelings.) Create an environment where it’s safe to voice honest ideas and opinions to make the work better.

http://www.adaptivepath.org/ideas/size-matters-dealing-with-large-teams/

What about introverts?

Become drained around large groups of people

http://sengifted.org/introversion-the-often-forgotten-factor-impacting-the-gifted/

Smaller social interaction helps us

https://www.quietrev.com/an-illustrated-guide-to-introverts-in-a-start-up/

Freedom to structure our own day helps us

https://www.quietrev.com/an-illustrated-guide-to-introverts-in-a-start-up/

Need personal space

Introverts are territorial with their space, time, energy and stuff. Is that wrong? No. Introverts can be just as generous and giving as extroverts. However, we give and share as we can – as our limited energy stores allow us to. We protect our space because it’s how we protect our energy. We protect our time for the same reason.

As far as stuff goes – it’s not a mine, mine, mine thing. It’s a respect thing. We just expect others to show some respect and ask before grabbing. Even though many extroverts aren’t the same as introverts in this philosophy, we give extroverts the respect that we’d like to receive.

We don’t interrupt. We don’t get physically close unless we sense that it’s OK with the other person, we don’t go through other people’s desk drawers looking for a stapler, and we don’t assume that it’s OK to just show up at someone’s home without calling first.

Resolving conflict

With a coworker

Not expecting miracles. Even if you get some issues out in the open, your negative feelings aren’t going to disappear overnight and that may be true for the other person as well. The old adage about time healing all wounds should be heeded – give yourself time to get past the experience.

Finding the value. You may believe the only thing you have gotten from the experience is an annoying eye tick, but conflict can help you grow. Take the time to consider what led to the conflict and the role you played. Is this kind of conflict something that has happened more than once? Could you take some steps to avoid it in the future by changing your behavior or strategy?

Keeping your perspective. From the time you were a child, conflict has been a part of your life whether you were fighting over a toy with a sibling or arguing with a parent about curfew. Any conflict at work is just that – another conflict. Don’t let it overwhelm your life so that you carry it with you and start arguing with family or friends.

https://www.quickbase.com/blog/how-to-resolve-a-conflict-with-a-colleague

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