To fix the "imagetag missing" error and the subsequent header installation failure, you must ensure the OpenShift driver-toolkit ImageStream contains a tag matching your node's RHCOS version.
Check the label on your GPU nodes:
oc get nodes -l nvidia.com/gpu.present=true -o jsonpath='{.items[0].metadata.labels["feature\.node\.kubernetes\.io/system-os_release\.OSTREE_VERSION"]}'