How the fan/cai framework solved a problem I didn't know how to name.
My household just grew from five to six, with a seventh and eighth showing up on a semi-regular basis. This isn't unusual anymore. Rents are high, wages are stagnant, and families are figuring out that sharing a roof makes more sense than it did ten years ago. Multi-generational households, roommate families, extended relatives folding back in -- the Western nuclear household is quietly expanding again, and nobody updated the dinner playbook.
I've been cooking for this growing table for a while now, and I was already doing things differently than the standard Western approach. I wasn't roasting a big piece of meat and slicing it onto plates. I was treating protein as one ingredient among many -- building dishes the way a stir-fry works, where the meat is a component rather than the star, where the flavor comes from the whole construction rather than the cut. My instinct was always tow
