acts_as_paranoid for has_many :through

acts_as_paranoid-has_many_through-usage.md

I am using the acts_as_paranoid gem to manage soft deletion

Ah ok. I have an association that is

(in user.rb)
has_many :files, :through => :folders

and i am calling

user.files.select(...).where(...).group(...)

but I would like to do

user.files.with_deleted.select(...).where(...).group(...)
```

How can I get this working??