How to enable remote JMX access

jmx-parameters-example.txt

java -jar yourApp.jar [JVM_OPTIONS]

For local host access only JVM_OPTIONS are:
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=9010
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.host=127.0.0.1
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.local.only=true
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false

For full remote access JVM_OPTIONS are:
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=9010
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.local.only=false
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false

Prefer IPv4 over IPv6:
-Djava.net.preferIPv4Stack=true

Example:
java -jar MyJar.jar -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=9010 -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.local.only=true -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.host=127.0.0.1 -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false -Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false -Djava.net.preferIPv4Stack=true

More:
http://java.sun.com/javase/6/docs/technotes/guides/management/agent.html

#from my mashine
#open SOCK to remote mashine
ssh -fN -D 7777 user@remotehost
##start jconsole
jconsole -J-DsocksProxyHost=localhost -J-DsocksProxyPort=7777 service:jmx:rmi:///jndi/rmi://localhost:9010/jmxrmi -J-DsocksNonProxyHosts=
#start the process on remote mashine, paramters see this gist