sudo apt-get update
sudo apt-get install -y xfce-session tightvncserver
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sudo apt-get update
sudo apt-get install -y xtightvncviewer
export VNC_DISPLAY=99
ssh <server-hostname> tightvncserver :${VNC_DISPLAY}
ssh -N -R 59${VNC_DISPLAY}:localhost:59${VNC_DISPLAY} <server-hostname> &
open vnc://localhost:59${VNC_DISPLAY}
xtightvncviewer localhost:59${VNC_DISPLAY}