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Effective communications

Effective communications

  • Communication -> Effective process -> Results
  • The four principles
  • The tool set
  • The five essential questions

The four principles

  1. Communication is perception
    • It is the recipient who commuicates.
    • It is experience, not logic. One cannot communicate a word; the whole man always comes with it.
    • How to improve?
      • Difficulties with a sentence mean confused thinkings. Need to fix the thought first.
    • 必須自問的問題:「這個溝通在接受者的理解範圍嗎?」
  2. Communication is expection
    • The human mind attempts to fit impressions and stimuli into a frame of expectations.
    • 如果不符合聽者的『期待框架』,漸進式地溝通不會產生效果。需要使用「喚醒」
  3. Communication makes demand
    • Communication always makes demands on people, requiring them to "become somebody, do something, believe something."
    • Communication is most powerful if it fits in to the recipient's aspirations, values and purposes.
    • There is no communication, in any meaningful sense, unless the message appeals - at least partially - to the recipient's motivations and values.
  4. Communication and information are different and indeed largely opposite --- yet interdependent.
    • Communication is perception whereas information is logic. That is, information is "purely formal and has no meaning."
    • The requirements for effective information are the opposite of those for effective communication.
      • The fewer data needed, the better the information.
      • Information presupposes communication. For information to be 'received' and used, there must be some prior agreement around meaning, that is, some communication.
      • Communications may not be dependent on information.
    • More and better information does not solve the communications problem, does not bridge the communications gap.

Conclusion

  • Communication requires shared experience.
  • There can be no communication if it is conceived as going from the "I" to the "Thou." Communication works only from one member of "us" to another.
  • Communication in organization is not a means of organization. It is the mode of organization.

The tool set

  • Ask good questions
    • analysis
  • Hammock
    • synthesis
    • waking mind and background mind
    • 3B (bed, bath, bus) entering the diffused mode.
  • Problem solving
    • cause, unknown, we care
  • Innovation
    • applied creativity/ raise the bar
    • the 7 disciplines
  • Decision
    1. 辨別問題的種類 - 四大類
    2. 激發歧見而非尋求共識
    3. Decision funnel
  • One-on-one meeting
    • Exploit the success --- unconscious competency

The five essential questions?

  • What is your mission?
    1. Your title?
    2. Why and what you do, not the means by which you do it.
    3. Intersection between opportunity, competency, and commitment.
      • Begin from opportunity.
  • Who is your customer?
    1. 直屬上級
    2. 直接合作的對象
    3. 用戶 & 間接用戶
  • What does your customer value? Most important
    • What satisfies your customers' needs, wants, and aspiration
    • case study - 規格/要求不合理
      1. 你虧欠公司的,不是和諧,而是績效。
      2. 提出選項讓客人選。
  • What are your results?
    1. How to evaluate your results?
    2. Evaluation in qualiative and quantitative ways.
  • What is your plan? (Strategy)
    1. 未被滿足的需求?
    2. 外在環境 & 趨勢?
    3. 如何投資?
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humorless commented Nov 26, 2020

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