See: https://www.tomshardware.com/uk/reviews/raspberry-pi-headless-setup-how-to,6028.html
- Format sd card as normal with lite or GUI versions
- Create a file "ssh" in the boot partition
- ssh to pi
- sudo su && raspi-config 4.1. Change locale (en_US.UTF-8 UTF-8) and ?keyboard layout (did not work for me)? 4.2. Change User Password 4.3. Network options -> change hostname