enable ssh: https://tailscale.com/blog/tailscale-ssh/
// not sure this is needed with gateway client (do install goland though) launch remote id: https://www.jetbrains.com/help/go/2022.2/remote-development-overview.html#use_local_ide ./remote-dev-server.sh run ~/projects/osm/
wire shh with id_rsa (don't think it is actually used)
install and use the "gateway client" https://www.jetbrains.com/help/go/2022.2/remote-development-a.html#launch_gateway