gistfile1.py

import re

address = re.compile(
    r'''

    # The regular name
    (\w+)               # first name
    \s+
    (([\w.]+)\s+)?      # optional middle name or initial
    (\w+)               # last name

    \s+

    <

    # The address: [email protected]
    (?P<email>
      \1               # first name
      \.
      \4               # last name
      @
      ([\w\d.]+\.)+    # domain name prefix
      (com|org|edu)    # limit the allowed top-level domains
    )

    >
    ''',
    re.UNICODE | re.VERBOSE | re.IGNORECASE)

candidates = [
    u'First Last <[email protected]>',
    u'Different Name <[email protected]>',
    u'First Middle Last <[email protected]>',
    u'First M. Last <[email protected]>',
    ]

for candidate in candidates:
    print
    print 'Candidate:', candidate
    match = address.search(candidate)
    if match:
        print '  Match name :', match.group(1), match.group(4)
        print '  Match email:', match.group(5)
    else:
        print '  No match'