On Accepting Unfairness Temporarily:
"Sometimes you have to give up being right to get what you want." - Unknown
"The person who cares least about the relationship has the most power in it. The person who cares most has to do the heavy lifting." - Relationship reality
"You can be right, or you can be married." - Common marriage wisdom
"Fairness is a luxury that stable relationships can afford. Unstable relationships require triage." - Adapted from therapy wisdom