How meetup fucked up, but then fixed it

meetup-bad-bad-hosts.md

Update: Meetup had revived the group and are welcoming us back again. At the end, no data was lost, even though interim communications suggested it was.
We are happy that things had finally taken a positive turn and are happy to stay at meetup and grow our community to our next event and next next event. We are a little bit sorry that things went soar for awhile but what's important is that at the end both us and meetup had learned how to make things better for the next time.

Original post below....

Meetup, you've been bad, bad hosts!

TL;DR: Meetup had deleted my group, for what I beleive to be their mistake, yet they did not admit the mistake nor can they restore the data. I am deeply dissapointed from meetup and I've lost my trust in them.

Longer:

In the past few months my co-organizer Ori Lahav and myself, Ran Tavory had been hard at work organizing a software developer focused event dubbed the Reversim Summit (it sounds better in hebrew).
This summit, or shal I say - conference, is a not-for-profit two days event hosted by Google in Israel and provided as a service by us to the local software developer community (and is a continuation to our four+ years software developer podcast reversim).

After months of preperation, with the help of a team of moderators, selecting the 30+ speakers, panelists, lab instructors, we finally were ready to open registration.
We chose to use meetup.com. The status quo was that this is the best platform for event registration and we were happy to pay money (or as a matter of fact, use Ori's alrady paid account) to open up the event's registration using meetup's platform.
And so we did, and less than 24h after publicly opening the regisration we had about 200 attendees and almost a full house, until last night (Jan 17th 2013), suddenly the group (broken link) is gone!
I was surprised so I asked Ori - did you, by any chance, or by mistake, delete this group or changed it's name?! Where's our group, then? Is meetup experiencing service issues?

Not long after, Ori gets a laconic email saying that our group had been shut down!

Quoting:

Your Meetup Group, Reversim Summit, was brought to our attention as specifically using the platform primarily as a lead generator or listing service, so we conducted a limited inquiry into the content.

We've determined that it's in violation of our Group Community Guidelines and Terms of Service. As a result of our inquiry, we've closed your Meetup Group.

WTF?

Lead generator? Listing service? WTF? You can't be serious!...

We figured - this must be a mistake. Probably an algorithm found an anormaly and decided to blacklist the group. All we have to do is get in touch with a person, a human, and set this thing straight.

And so we did. We got in touch with meetup's support and their reply was even more dissapointing.

Quoting:

It's important that your Meetup Group's intentions be clearly stated in the Group description, especially during the initial start up phase. Your intentions were unclear, which is why we took action on your Group. [...] Once a Meetup Group has been removed from the site, it's final. However, if you would like to start a new Meetup Group, try answering the following questions in your description: [...]

So here's what I get from this reply:

1. The description of the group was not clear enough. Clearly my fault, I take this blame.
2. Because the description was not clear enough, meetup took action and deleted the group. Unrecoverable. Deleted permanently. Isn't that a bit out of proportion, meetup? And without a single word of apology.
3. The team at meetup did not contact us before taking the group off and did not ask for clarification, which we'd happly provided if asked, we have nothing to hide.
4. The group had been permanently deleted. There's no recovery for the 200+ members. Meetup decided to take an ireversible action based on 'unclear' description. Permanently deleted? Really? Don't you have engineers that know anything about bits in the database that are set to hide 'mutted' or 'hidden' or 'disabled' rows or something? (I still hope that the data is there somewhere, and the support team just doesn't know that). Developers don't just delete data, just like that, I know, I'm a developer too.
5. Initially meetup accused us of Lead Generration and being a Listing Service. Then, they simply say that the description is not clear enough. No single word of apology.

Really? Meetup, I expect higher stardards of you. I trusted you.
I've been 12+ years in the internet business as a developer and I realize you have to protect your users and assets from illegitimate usage, but while doing so, you also have to preotect your legit users, and not throw them out the door like that.
Registration is gone, unrecoverable, and I'm thiking - How can I trust you again? How do I know you're not going to play that trick again on me, without a word of pre-notice, just because my description was not clear enough, or maybe I misspelled my title what have you?

I am deeply dissapointed both from your draconic policy and your customer service and I hope my case will serve as a red flag and a turning point to you in the future to come.

However, if you would like to start a new Meetup Group, try answering the following questions in your description [...]`

• yeah, right... with this level of trust I have no other choice but taking my business elsewhere.

Meetup, you've been bad, bad hosts, I am so sorry to say that.

Experienced the same shit with them. Sorry to hear this for you.

Here is what happened to me and how they closed my group, without a notification before they closed it to ask me about the intention of the group:
http://www.facebook.com/beyondtellerrand/posts/466727566699029

I definitely will never use them again.

You are a fucking idiot.
Meetup is for real events, social events, ongoing events NOT a one time event. They make it clear

You can have a group that attends festivals or concerts.....but you can't have a group to advertise ONE particular festival or concert. I hope they close your shit up again cause it is not a meetup. Pretty dumb of you to choose them
Meetup has not worked very well for most "business" or "software" type groups. It works fine for socials, singles,
game playing, festivals, concerts, hobbies etc.

Get a life

And while you are at it "meetup" worker guy...how about keeping NON Americans out of our groups??

I run local events...no interest in the "new" members from India, Nigeria, with their rambling "oh dear goddess, wonderful one my heart is searching, God Bless" blah blah
or the cute young Ukrainian women looking for "generous older American men"

Can't you block the IP's of these countries?? I only want local members

Just realised that the post isn't so recent anymore but I also got very disappointed by Meetup. Here is my story: https://rantlr.wordpress.com/2015/03/14/meetups-automatic-fraud-systems-are-out-of-control/

I, too, got clobbered by Meetup. I set up a simple singles group and was welcoming new members. They suspended and then cancelled our account for sending the same message to members -- WHILST ALSO ASKING US TO UP the ANTE and spring for a 'pro' membership! One of our members told us they were in touch with a meetup rep who said, "Just tell them to contact us. We wouldn't just cancel their account over such a minor issue." But when we try to contact them, we have to LOG IN. They won't allow us to do that because the group is cancelled. When we sent email to the [email protected] address our member suggested, it says, "This email is not associated with any Meetup account and so we cannot receive your message." This company is getting all the money they need from George Soros. By now, they're probably Soros owned. More than likely they have a 'No Christians Allowed' policy and you're arbitrarily cancelled if you start one. I'm going to have DISCOVER CARD get our money back. This is the beauty of companies like DISCOVER: If a company refuses to communicate with their clients, you CAN GET YOUR MONEY BACK no matter HOW unfair they THINK they can be. Buyer Beware. We need SOUND SOLUTIONS for MEETUP.

I had a terrible experience with meetup.com We ran a hugely helpful meetup group named - Equiskill- R, SAS, Tableau Meetup - with 2000 Members. Someone at Meetup HQ decided to delete the group and all its meetups due to an error by my team in calling a Physical meetup a webinar. I sent detailed photos of the event and even screenshots where I specifically mentioned to meetup members that it was a physical meetup in Kuala Lumpur not a virtual one. I have shared all this with Nicole - Community Integrity Team Lead - but no - one seems to care. I am a paid user of meetup for the last two years, and have specifically committed to meetup HR that we are increasing our physical meetups to 50% as per their requirement, but this will take time. Again, no reply.

So, my group with 2000 satisfied members was shut down overnight, and two years of effort and free meetups organised Globally mean nothing! I request meetup.com to have more customer obsession, something I saw loads of at Amazon, where I worked.

It hurts to have paid meetup.com so many dollars, but more importantly having given meetup members so much of my personal time free of cost, only to be shut down by their highness the MeetupHQ team. I have sent actual proof of my physical meetups, photos even. What do meetup HR team need now? My boarding pass and hotel stay bills? I have those too! If only someone at Meetup will L I S T E N ?