Outdated note: the process is a lot easier now: after you brew install postgresql you can initialize or stop the daemon with these commands: brew services start postgresql or brew services stop postgresql.
new out put may look like
To have launchd start postgresql now and restart at login:
  brew services start postgresql
Or, if you don't want/need a background service you can just run:
  pg_ctl -D /usr/local/var/postgres start
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In your command-line run the following commands:
brew doctorbrew update
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In your command-line run the command:
brew install postgresql - 
Read the Caveats section that is outputted to the Terminal. (out dated?)
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Run the command:
ln -sfv /usr/local/opt/postgresql/*.plist ~/Library/LaunchAgents - 
Open your zsh config file:
subl ~/.zshrc - 
At the bottom of the file, create two new aliases to start and stop your postgres server. They could look something like this:
alias pg-start="launchctl load ~/Library/LaunchAgents/homebrew.mxcl.postgresql.plist" alias pg-stop="launchctl unload ~/Library/LaunchAgents/homebrew.mxcl.postgresql.plist" - 
Run the command:
source ~/.zshrcto reload your configuration. - 
Run the alias you just created:
pg-start. Use this comment to start your database service.- alternatively, 
pg-stopstops your database service. 
 - alternatively, 
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Run the command:
createdb `whoami` - 
Connect to your postgres with the command:
psql 
from the man ln command
The ln utility creates a new directory entry (linked file) which has the same modes as the original file. It is useful for maintaining multiple copies of a file in many places at once without using up storage for the
copies''; instead, a linkpoints'' to the original copy. There are two types of links; hard links and symbolic links. How a link ``points'' to a file is one of the differences between a hard and symbolic link.
from the man launchctl command
launchctl interfaces with launchd to manage and inspect daemons, angents and XPC services.
I cant find the zsh file