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It's not secret. I date multiple women. I'm not in a hurry to be in long-term commited relationship. Most women scoff at this idea and that used to scare me. I thought this meant I wouldn't find someone amazing to care for and who would care for me. That fear was completely unfounded. It simply took a tiny bit of courage to eschew the prevailing "wisdom" and see for myself. I was already doing this in other areas of my life with much success. As a person that strongly believes that the world is built around patterns, I felt that if I saw this pattern in other areas, there was a very good chance that the same pattern would emerge in dating. I was correct. Just like in sales, your customers, your #1 fans exist; you just have to keep knocking on doors until you find them.