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Marriage is a mutherfucking scam...so is divorce court
- Marriage is a government scam, here's proof
- Bill Maher: I've Never Understood the Concept of Marriage
- Andrew Tate on Organized Control Mechanisms That Reduce Masculine Power 💯
- Why Marriage is a Scam - Honest Ads
- Marriage Is A SCAM... here's why
- “Marriage is a scam, women only do it cause of the pressure of society”- Moët Abebe
- People Speaking On Marriage Is A Scam
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Marriage sucks for men. Probably for women too; however, I can only write succinctly about my own experience as a man. Marriage sucks for men, mostly because men are teh breadwinners.
AS a man, and as primary breadwinner, when you get married, you're upgrading someone's life and lifestyle.
Marriage is always going to be better for the person who's lifestyle gets upgraded. What's the benefit to the breadwinner?
Now, someone else in in your home, calling the shots. Don't beleieve me? Try living with a woman for any significant amoutn of time, and even if she's passive, she'll be trying to slowly userp your authority in certain areas of the home. Sounds cute at first, until she becomes unreasonable and evil.
You might be thinking that this is easily solved with two incomes. No, it's just makes the problem worse. If she makes a little money, now, she's even more boldly trying to tell you what to do. If she makes more, oh God, now she's a shit talker and any time there's a little friction, she bolts. She's off to do God knows what.
So, again, I ask, what is in it for a man? Nothing. You lose yourself in this relationship. You're less free. You work hard, but you reap way less of the rewards for your hard labor. She's telling you how long you can shower. She's telling you how to spend and how not to spend YOUR money.
To make things even worse, if you wait too long to get out of this nightmare, you're greeted by the government telling you that you have to ensure her lifestyle stays upgraded. Doesn't matter if this woman was slapping you in the face or kicking you in the ass like you're a donkey. Doesn't matter. Her lifestyle must be maintained, at your expense.
Who is the shortsighted bastard that thought up this stupid ass plan of attack on American men? Whoever you are sir, fuck you very much.
Are there good women out there with good hearts that won't rip you off? Sure! There are some out there, but, they're hard to find and you need to be extremely patient and you need to work on yourself, otherwise, they'll never see you.
Are there women out there that feel like they've been ripped off by marriage? Yes, of course. There are plent of women who earned more and now they're paying their bumb ass ex too. I've had plenty of conversations with such women, and they're just as pissed off as I am.
That being said, I wasn't there to see how it all went down. It's very possible that they women, while in the relationship were fucking tyrants because they were the breadwinners. Then again, I wasn't a tyrant; I was a bit of a pushover, so, I cannot assume that all of these women were tyrants; though, the evidence does show that women who are the primary breadwinners are mostly assholes. But, take all that with a grain of salt.
Back to the actual point though...What's the point of marriage then? You bring someone into the home you've purchased, and now you have less freedom and more responsiblity. How does that make your life better?
Someone is nagging you to do something. Someone is nagging you to buy them something. Someone is nagging you to take them somewhere. This person doesn't give you the type of sex you truly desire. This person doesn't have any friends, so they are always in your face telling you what to do. This bitch is a nightmare.
But, you're on the hook for making them happy.
A woman that cuts her man down frequently but expects that man to be loyal is delusional.
It sounds like you're expressing concern about a situation where there's a mismatch between someone's actions and their expectations. In relationships, respect and communication are key. If one partner frequently criticizes or undermines the other, it can create an environment of resentment and mistrust, which is not conducive to loyalty or a healthy relationship.
For a relationship to thrive, both partners need to feel valued, respected, and supported. Criticism, when it's constructive and delivered in a caring manner, can be part of a healthy relationship. However, when it becomes frequent, harsh, or demeaning, it can erode the foundations of trust and respect that loyalty is built upon.
It's important for anyone in such a situation to communicate their feelings openly and honestly. Discussing how certain behaviors affect one's feelings and the relationship can help both partners understand each other's perspectives and work towards a healthier dynamic. In some cases, seeking the guidance of a couples therapist or counselor can provide the tools and space needed to navigate these challenges effectively.
Remember, loyalty in a relationship is fostered through mutual respect, understanding, and care for each other's well-being. Both partners should strive to create a supportive and loving environment where both feel secure and valued.
You've been dealing with low-brow negative comments and demeaning remarks. She says something off-color, your mood (rightly) changes; now this chick is picking at you, "Your mood changed"; as if it shouldn't affect you in any way. So, now, you're confused thinking something is wrong with you. All the while, this chick knows she's manipulating you.
It's better to overpay for a divorce than to stay in a toxic marriage or a relationship that fails to meet your needs
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On the low end, you'll pay 1/4 of your salary to your ex; at the higher end, if you're extremely unlucky you'll be paying her between 1/3 and 50% of your salary per month.
This is extremely disheartening, especially if you were living in hell to begin with; because now, you're still suffering, but it's a different kind of suffering. Financial devastation even seems like an understatement; however, there is hope.
You're going to have to downsize. For example, were you paying a mortgage while married? If yes, then sell the home, nix the mortgage, and live on the road for a while.
This will provide opportunities you never fathomed before.
Most women, once you marry them, they suppress your potential. All of the things you used to do that made you awesome, the things they liked about you, they no longer want you doing.
She's not putting any effort into those blowjobs, if she's blowing you at all.
If somehow she is loyal and fun and doesn't suppress your potential and is giving you amazing blowjobs and she cooks, and she doesn't try to boss you around and she doesn't bother you about hanging with your buddies, and she's not flirting with other dudes; and shes and she's hot, then, consider yourself lucky as fuck.
Good question.
Marriage is a contract. What other contract do you know of where the breaker of said contract is rewarded with your wealth/assets and a stipend to keep the lifestyle they were entitled to at the time of signing the contract.
Imagine signing on a general contractor to do some work; they didn't perform the work they said they would, and furthermore, screwed up your house, then proceeded to tear up the contract, and then, took you to court where the judge awarded them the house that they fucked up as well as a stipend that you pay to them monthly because they were comfortable with the money you were paying them under the terms of the contract.
Stupid laws infringe upon my freedom and steals my hard earned money and splits the profits with leeches.
RM -rf Toxic Relationships
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The sooner you get away from that toxic ass wife
The sooner you'll be able to attract a peaceful women into your life
Proverbs 21:9: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”
• Proverbs 25:24: “Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.”