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A real woman sets you up from the beginning to succeed. She's a bonus. She's a prize. We are the leaders and we eat last, but when we eat ... we feast on only the best and finest pieces possible to import. Why you think pirates always on ships. They are looking for the best women.
It begins at the time you start invoking your game.
You're already witty ... she can't even keep up. That's okay, you, the man, are a unique unicorn you saggin bastard you.
Let her make the subtle passes and you finish!
She's usually the first one to see you...you didn't see her because you were after another one; but she ain't her.
She's even better than the one you originally wanted.
The universe has a way of blessing you with more than you imagined; if you do the work.
How does plants in any garden 🪴 gonna grow if you never do a little work. It's not much, it just has to be consistent.
Some people call this congruence; but they are all smarter and more experienced than me. I'm just now figuring this all out.
They are modern. They are sophisticated and they appreciate well timed, well placed humor. They are well read. Do not take this lightly.
If she likes you, she's going to want you to win. Who's going to have to talk to the men in her life that she respects?
What story is she telling her girlfriends? She does have real girlfriends right? Please tell me you checked bruh?!?
You saggin bastard!!! You forgot???
Nah, it's fine though. Just make sure she's not toxic and fake or worse ... violent.
We aren't just trying to smash. Sure, that's part of the plan and the only way to know she's not boring. Do you want to have to work everyday of your life and have to pay for meals and drinks for a woman who is boring? We don't settle.
- Drinks (Koolaide if you're a kid)
- Food
- Music
- Flirty Banter
- Funny Moments
- Exploratory conversation
That's it. That's the list. Not ten things. We not God bro.
But we are a unicorn and so is she. She likes a good story so lets give her one.
She likes touchy feely stuff too ... just like you do you monkey saggin bastard.
Ask her what she likes, what she spends free time on. Learn about her friends, her fam, her interests and dreams.
Make the first move. Technically she made the first move, but they have xray vision or something because we be thinking we saw them first, but most of the time, nah.
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If you've selectn the correct chica, then you will never be shy around her. We do not settle.
She just needs to know that choosing you is a good choice in her eyes and the eyes of her peers and elders.
If you are witty, kind (hold the door, her hand, and get between her and danger), brave (tease her).
She's sweet and gentle but only to the right ones. Even then, you still need to stand out a little, but it has to be subtle.
They are very socially aware. You are not going to fool her. Remember she felt your energy before you felt hers. She knows you find her attractive.
If she doesn't send you away sternly, then, talk to her. She's an attractive female, of course she's interesting 🧐. You'd be a fool not to get to know her as long as she's enjoying you company and at least mildly attracted to you or your personality.
You don't have to make it a big deal. You don't have to make yourself seem like anything special. Yes, you saggin bastard, you are special, but she'll realize that eventually.
Right now, we are working on our confidence because this is going to help us in everything we do.
Make it a challenge. Make it a workout. You need the excercise. You'll witness the benefits soon enough. Benefits you never knew existed. The feeling of the exactly type of female you like caressing your back, wrapping her leg around yours at dinner or in lines. Now waiting in lines doesn't suck all of a sudden!
You've never REALLY been kissed well until you encounter a woman who knows herself and her own needs and is independent and modern.
These women are worth putting the work into ourselves because by being close to them, it makes us even better. You'll never get to that next level until you can master gaining and keeping their attention.
The trick is to be relatable. You need friends who are women. If you are intimate with her and you are friends, that's ok, you're the alpha in the relationship and that's expected.
Why not??? They, understand what our needs are. But if thats the way you wanna set your relationships up ... nobody is stopping you.
I would never advise you to go that way
Anyway, do you want to be the guy in her life that exits stage left everytime her boss comes into the scene? Or, do you want to be the guy she is proud to introduce as "the guy".
Remember, you might be the only dude that stepped to her like this in a long time and now she realizes she wants to be with you ... even if she has a man, she shes always curious about what a confident man has to offer at least in conversation.
From there, mutual, natural escalation starts.
She starts finishing the subtle jokes you are trying to amuse her with. At first, you were just an interesting guy, now, she's noticing that you're creative, funny, and mature.
If she also finds you attractive, well, this is a win, win, win, for you.
For her it could be a win and a loss. If she's single she gives you her contact info. If she's in a relationship, she has to now evaluate whether she's actually happy or if she settled???
If she settled, you'll see it written all over her face. She's sad because she realizes you might be a better fit, but she's not like that ... she's not going to cheat on her guy. Though, she might break up with him if she's kind.
Leave her your number just in case.
We are going to meet lots of women. Some older, some younger. Some big, some thicc, some petite.
They are all lovely 🥰. But there are only a few that really fit as "the one" ... for now.
She separates herself just enough to stand out. Shes your biggest fan and critics.
She knows how to inspire you by being the best version of herself
Yet she has no idea how enamored 🤩 you are with her. You did not expect to meet such an odd combination of features and personality. It gives me chills still.
She wants to know as much as you want to know ... are you as real as you think you are and claim to be?
Are you "that guy"? For real? Or just another pretender. She doesn't care about your stupid job ... not yet. She wants to know if you're going to be this same awesome guy when things get a little squirrelly.
One of the many benefits of always being yourself and executing your gestures with your own flavor and tone is that she can remember your moves.
When you text her, she can see your emotions in your words because she knows how you'd express it IRL.
Everything I just said about women is true; though, this advice is NOT applicable to you unless you believe. Yeah, you know what I mean when I say believe.
People that don't believe in the lessons revealed in the bible, bless their little hearts are simply not curious enough. It's not about whether the stories have been doctored. Human life is connected through the universe. The universe works the way it works because it was created that way by ...
You are a unique unicorn. She is too. When you seek to understand how she is unique, then you know the way. Now you know why some dudes blow rediculous amounts of money on terribly boring dates. Drinking themselves to sleep.
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If she sees you moving and building something interesting and useful then she'll naturally want to be a part of it. She's going to positively affect the outcome anyhow with her positive presence, so anything further that she does to make this the most helpful resource possible is a bonus.
The most interesting revelations will come to you as you learn more about yourself because you want her to know everything about you and you want it all to come out through the quality time you spend with her. Playing in the water, holding hands while walking in the sand, when she grabs and turns you around and pulls you in for a kiss, then turns your head to make sure you don't miss the sunset and sunrise.
The conversations never stop becasue you found one that makes your ticker tick a little faster, but you breath because you know you need to slow down with this one.