Custom recipe to get full Node.js Cloud Environment in DigitalOcean Dokku droplet running from scratch. Yes. Your own Heroku for $5 per month.
I use this gist to keep track of the important configuration steps required to have a functioning system after fresh install.
When you have executed that's all step by step you will get a new working and stable system which is ready to host & serve your Node.js application and databases.