[aws-neuron/nki-library#11] fix(scatter_add): accumulate duplicate destination indices via unique_indices flag
scatter_add silently drops contributions when index repeats a destination row inside the
same 128-row tile. That is the common case for embedding gradients, so
grad_table.scatter_add_(0, token_ids, grads) currently returns wrong gradients for any
batch containing a repeated token.
This PR adds an opt-in unique_indices=False path that accumulates correctly. The default is
unchanged, so existing callers and the existing fast path are untouched.