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- How to win at dating quality women online
If she drinks like a fish, toss her back into the sea.
- Figuring out who is worthy of your time, energy, and other resources (AKA Standards).
- Planning unfallable dates.
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- Profile
- Setting Your preferences
- How not to get scammed
- Opening (message templates: @date0) ... incremental progress, revise all prompts until women compliment the opening and prompts. Keep those
- Setting the date
- Conversing
- Voice notes
- Never tolerate: disrespectful women, potty mouth women, masculine women
- Where to meet women
- Stop being so effing nice
- Hair, Grooming, Style
- Therapy & Coaching & Problem Resoution
- Profile Details, Stats & Photos
- How to choose the right apps
- Before The match
- After the match
- Text game, keeping the conversation going, getting the date
B&N because they have a starbucks that you can use to set up a very romantic date...
- Barnes & Noble (Magazines: ask her to guess which type of mags you have, then, go through some). Ideas: Travel, Home Design, Motorcycles, Finance
- Gelato
- Outdoor Fireplace (look for outdoor mall guard and he will be able to light up one of the fireplaces for you)
- Take Photos
- Kiss
- Don't Chase Woman | Andrew Tate
- Myron Gaines On Getting Multiple Women, Increasing Masculinity & Getting Rich
- Inherent value => protect it
- Loyal out of choice, not out of necessity
- When a woman knows she can be replaced ...
- Women act better when you have other women in line
- Women want to be picked
- Retaining is different than obtaining
- Be yourself
- Confidence
- have a system for determining how much time to spend on each dating partner.
- Prefer busy women, because when they set time aside for you, you know it's real
- Groom your list of matches semi-frequently. Don't get all religious about it, but, make it a semi-frequent habit. You have to come up with a system that works for you. I have a system that works for me. I like to group women into the following buckets...
- women that are below the minimum beauty requirement
I believe men have an incredible lack of awareness of their own role in their woman’s happiness. See, many of us settle for women we barely like or maybe we don’t like her at all...but we tend to not leave. Is that weak? Yes, it is. Now, to be fair, many women have no clue why they behave the way they do either so there is also a strong lack of awareness of how they work too. That being said, this is about men and us men need to stop settling.
Its making us unhappy and holding us back from being our best selves.
How motivated can a man really be when he is constantly settling in his life, in his relationships, etc?
How to be alpha and get girls (DateKit Pivot) Game: ...
Learn to be comfortable in your own skin in the presence of the type of women that previously caused your behavior to change.
She might not have rejected you; she might have just rejected the personality you presented which isn’t even yours.
You don’t need to spend a lot of money on this stuff.
We usually are the last ones to realize how awesome we really are.
Women are naturally curious about a high value man. Women have a natural high value radar...its autonomous and cannot be shut down.
Numbers going after one, you get none, go after 10, you get 10 ...
Courses The System Winner Game (free) 3% Man The F Formula (https://wgm-cf-download.s3.amazonaws.com/f-formula/F_Formula.m4b)
Exercises ...
xevolutionary Psychology Psychology of persuasion
Social Anxiety or Approach Anxiety ...
Opening ...
Diagram ...
Banter improv class Movies: marx brothers, (old movies) Read more books Talk to more people, then especially people you normally wouldn’t Have more IRL experiences...when I used to play only video games and sports, my CV conversation was limited Try new interesting things, take classes, go to places you would have normally not gone to Instead of buying X this month, put that money in an account for the purpose of taking a class or having some new experience
Books https://youtube.com/watch?v=0vH0j-oCfNQ The Moral Animal by Robert Wright (How we evolved psychologically and the purpose behind why our brain has certain emotions per Darwin) Sperm Wars by Robin Wright (Why women have sex & how sex lines up with reproductive value) Influence by Robert Cialdini Stranger in a strange land The Truth about what women want in men by Susan Eno Making People Talk by Barry Farber (on conversation)
Pickup Zones grocery stores Hottest girls dance at the loudest clubs
Fundamental Tools (smile, smirk 😏, ) Proper Eye Contact (increases your chances by about 30%) This gets girls excited Must be subtle 2-3 seconds of soft eye contact then, slowly break away, then come back Look in the mirror and say: I know you want me, but let’s pretend we both don’t notice it and we’ll continue playing this game You want your eyes to communicate Smirk (best smile for flirting)
Flirting (interacting with a woman) Showing intent Having fun Soft eye contact Standing or Sitting close to her Light or Playful Touching Actions are in line with what it is you want from her (what you thinking in your head) Verbal Using direct words to say and ask for what you want (in line with intent)
Examples I’ve really enjoyed talking to you I’d like to do this again Why don’t I take you there next week
What you will learn Ability to determine whether a girl is interested The characteristics of an alpha male How to gain true confidence
characteristics of an alpha male smile (eggen, how to pick up beautiful women at bars, sense of humor 97% - others aren’t doing it) Humor (anecdotes) Attractiveness Assertiveness Assuredness Attentiveness Aliveness Confidence Well groomed Connecting with people Social center of the room
Places to take girls dark corners
Rules Once you see a girl, you have 3 seconds to speak to her.
Approach Never approach a woman from behind, come in more at an angle and speak to her from over your shoulder like you might leave Do not be stiff, be yourself, tall, loose, confident ...
Indicators of interest (3 indicates interest with high certainty) She asks whether you’re single She asks for your name If you take her hand
Terminology AMOTG Speed Seduction HB PUA Searging Boyfriend destroy pattern Chick Crack (tests, psychology games, fortune telling) AFC IOI Neg / IOD DHV
Confidence comes from competency not from alcohol or drugs you can walk in and start talking to everyone and not care. Meaning, you don’t feel anxiety before, during, or after walking into a bar, and, throughout the entire set. ...
Phases ...
Well Groomed Hair Attire Shoes
Attraction Establish rapport Establish value with others Do not take yourself so seriously Banter and flirt with her Smile
group sets Pay particular attention to the target’s friends Neg the target How do you guys know each other Pleasure meeting you You are not hitting on anyone until you have enough IOIs anyway Demonstrate higher value to her friends I’ve been alienating your friend...is it ok if i talk to her for a couple minutes (basically, you need a reason to isolate her)
Routines 12 photo rotation Are you brother & sister Boyfriend/Girlfriend?
Mystery Method (13 steps) https://youtu.be/OLfP3DrZQF0 ...
Neg-like or challenging or qualification Questions ... oh, thats really good, cause your first impression really sucked but now I see you are quite amazing
Games I like...Stone temple pilots, plush
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Online match (status: abandoned, reason: too many unattractive women)
Storytelling ...
Looking for the woman of your dreams? Are you sure you're ready to change? You'll only find her once you've found yourself.
Have you decided whether you want stay single and openly date who ever whenever or do you want a long term relationship, possibly even marriage?
Are you the type that when you meet a new woman, you can't wait to tell her what type of job you have, your position or status, how much money you make. Keep an eye out for whether you're doing this with others as well. It may be a sign or incongruity or insecurity.
Besides, you don't have to tell her or anybody shit about your financial or living situation unless rings are being exchanged!!!
Can she do the things you need for her to do as a partner? Are you fun, funny and not boring? Do people like you? Especially other girls? Do you workout ... frequently?
Don't ask me shit about my 6-figure job until you can answer those straight forward ass questions? In fact, do you answer questions when asked or do you deflect?
Why are you asking about my job in the first 5 minutes?
There's an even more important question to ask ... but you aren't ready for that yet.
Everytime you talk to her, you say things you think she wanna hear instead of taking anout shit you wanna talk about. Thats why you not funny
She will either give you her hand or her ass to kiss.
Beach Museum
Spend two hours exploring solo, meet up after. Share what you're excited about then show and tell. Then find a spot to take a photo together.
Then go eat and talk about the adventure. Then kiss and hug in between.
Ice cream. Share, hand in hand.
Laugh, joke, poke, tease.
Go back to her place. Watch a documentary. Wine & popcorn.
Fall asleep, wake up & fuck
Breskfast
Walk on pier
Fishing
A Grade Date Friday Saturday
B Grade Date Sunday
C Monday Thursday
D Tuesday Wednesday
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This book is meant for men looking to date with purpose. There are plenty of “hooking up” resources floating around ... this isn’t that.
With DateKit we want to attract classy, intellectually interesting, adventurous and attractive women.
DateKit is great for men that are looking to leave a mediocre relationship or those that already ady have. Perhaps you are currently separated and soon to be completed divorced.
Life is too short for mediocre dating experiences and mediocre relationships. Sadly, most dates are boring, unfulfilling, overpriced and ultimately a waste of time.
DateKit aims to correct this.
DateKit is meant to help men level up their game as it relates dating. DateKit differs from other dating resources. DateKit aims to set men up for long term success by providing strategies and examples on how to get the most out of a date so there is nothing wasted, you are not over spending on dates, and you are dating at the top of your class, not the bottom.
The best reward is to have done the work and to then be rewarded with a date with a woman who is gorgeous, humorous, intellectually stimulating, loves good food, is adventurous and respectful of you and your position as a man.
— chapter zero: identity
— chapter one: i am not impressed by your performance (gsp)
Have you ever been excited about playing a particular video game, only to find out that it’s actually no fun to play? Your buddies rave about the game. They talk about their high scores, their achievements and rewards; yet ever time you play, your response is “I hate this game”.
First of all; you don’t hate the game. In fact, you 💜 the game. It’s just that, you don’t know how to train autonomously.
One can learn a lot about a person by simply observing his game play.
Here are some red flags that are so red they look purple:
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— chapter two: therapy & coaching
Good luck finding anyone in the dating world that didn’t suffer trauma as a child.
For the super small few that didn’t, therapy is like car maintenance. Whether or not the car was brand new or if it was used when you got it, regular maintenance is paramount.
If you don’t do the work, it will show up in your dating results. There are plenty of free apps that can get one started with healing.
Check the app store, search the web and YouTube for the following:
CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy) ...
Trust me, a few short months of this stuff and you’ll be happy to come clean with any traumas from your past including any traumas you may have caused.
Many people hide incidents about their past due to shame, guilt, and / or embarrassment.
You’d be surprised at how much better you sleep when you get some of these things off your mind by confessing to someone safe. Keep in mimd, no everyone is safe to tell. Manipulative people might try to hurt you by using your confessions against you; that’s why you need to do this in a safe space and ideally with a professional.
— chapter four: style
You may or may not realize this, but women love a stylist man. Please don’t confuse stylish with flashy. Not the same thing. Also, never take style advice from someone that doesn’t have her style game together. You are better off either hiring a style consultant or taking some time to understand a little bit about style.
There are plenty of YouTube videos that can help you get started.
— chapter three: profile iteration
I personally recommend hinge for your online dating profile. The women there are generally classy, intellectually interesting, adventurous and attractive. Just the combination we want. In fact, this is the only combination worth putting effort into unless you want a life of strife and heartache.
Your initial profile will not be your final profile. You will incrementally update the text and photos over time.
The women you are interested in will help you understand which photos to keep and which photos to swap out.
— chapter five: women you would do well to avoid
Positive Uplifting Topics
What’s your favorite thing to get for free that most people don’t know about? If you were gonna create your own podcast, who would be 5 guests you’d invite? What’s the code word babe? Code word? Yeah ... ! What’s thats? The word we use when we can’t wait any longer. For what? Mutual massages. What does mutual massages lead to? Sleep? Lol? No, not sleep. Try again. Ok, how about it leads to moisture. Moisture? Yeah, a good moisture. Oh? Yeah, it’s natural. You really tryna put that kinda pressure on me already :) ? Whats your relationship with your family like? With mom, with dad? What do you mean? What do you love in life What do you like to do for fun? What are you passionate about What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done Where is the most controversial place you’ve had sex? What is the most exciting place you’ve had sex in public What do you love but are afraid to admit What are your guilty pleasures What is the funniest thing that has happened to you What’s unique and exciting about you What makes life exciting to you What do your friends love the most about you What is the most fun you’ve ever had Whats your biggest dream How do you know if a guy is right for you? What was school like for you? Good or bad experience? Are you interested in sports? Either participating or watching? Have you ever farted and blamed it on someone else successfully Whats the one thing that you cannot say no to Whats the most fun you’ve ever had on a date What are you really good at that would surprise me If you could wake up tomorrow and be anyplace you want, where would you be? What is your craziest travel story Do you like to sit in your car and just...think? Favorite flower Favorite food Favorite color Favorite number
skate at a secluded low traffic golf course, find a spot to setup camp and have sex in the eno. Need lots of trees to stay secluded. ...
Top Score (@42 pre-game) 19 (mine)
A few lines where haven’t I kissed you yet? I need to tell you something...come...close...to my face. Who you went off on lately? Hey, nice to hear your voice again. What days are you free to get together so I can find a spot on my schedule... After a date is given: great, locked that into the calendar. Imma call it, opportunity for Shelby to seduce me. What do you think; is the mustache too thick? Tyler, why you didn’t tell the homie that these girls will buy a nigga drinks or give them to you for free? Fernet Favorite number, number near your worth from 1-10, in terms of beauty. You can go up in score per relationships. Half a point for a good family relationship, a half for community relationships, a half for intimate relationship, a point for intelligence, emotional and study. Favorite number. The number of how many hours is acceptable to make you wait to get a phone response from me or a text. Its also the beauty score.@ Don’t you know I can love on you and not even know you? That’s what you want right isn’t it?! Thats also the number of times I’m going to tell you something in your ear. We will be very close. Ready? Ok. We got each other right now. Thats one. I like your voice. How many is that babe? Can I practice having a girlfriend on you? I feel like I’m about to learn a lot about you :) I like looking at your face ... I like what’s been coming out of your mouth. If you keep being a good partner like that, imma allow you 2 minutes to have me do anything you want me to do. It involves just me and you obviously. I don’t care if people know we like each other; as long as the things we do for each other, stays between us. Use software and databases to get them intrigued and start talking...
Initiating Touch (go slow but show initiative) With permission Alluding to touching her
Mystery Kiss Close Would you like to kiss me? If “Yes”: kiss her If “Maybe”: say lets find out, kiss her If “No”: say I didn’t say you could, I just assumed you wanted to based on your body language
Phase Shifting (state transition) IOIs (3) ...
Posture stand straight up, never bend down
Flirting demonstration of your value Play with & engage with her and have her hooked on only you Make a connection and build attraction
Flirting Levels (IEI) initiation escalation infatuation
Phases Phases can be revisited once that phase has been reached. phase 1 phase 2 phase 3
There is a lot to this shit.