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- Be normal
- Smile a lot, you never know when a chick is watching you; people will give you free stuff
- Eye contact
- Say hello
- Get the same drink she just ordered
- Tell her, you like her vibe
- Don't ask for her number, let her offer it to you
- Your looks: attire, grooming,
- Your vibe/swag: your attitude, your walk, your confidence
- Where you can meet women: you can meet a woman pretty much anywhere; however, in my experience, you're going to have the highest chances of meeting an available woman in these places
- Do not stare...let them stare at you. You'll know when it's happening. If one woman in the room is checking you out, then, they probably all are.
- How to be a gentleman and meet lots of women
- By Wil Moore III
- published by showerthought publishing
...and say that. If you want a hookup, say that. It's more respectable and gives the other person the opportunity to know what they are opting into and gives them the opportunity to opt out without wasting their time.
Let's be honest; who doesn't want to meet someone and have sex with them? We're all human after all; however, most people are looking for more than sex. Most of us want a connection...then sex.
No doubt, you might be offended that physical appearance happens to be the very first chapter in this book. Seems superficial doesn't it?
Well, tough. Get over it and get over yourself. This is how the world works; like it or not. Do you balk at the rules of monopoly? No; you don't, because you'd sound like an idiot with a stick up your ass. You'd sound ridiculous because that's how the game is played and everyone knows it.
Your physical appearance is the first thing people see when you walk in a room. Yes, you are being judged. Get over it. If you don't like the manner in which you're being judged on your physical appearance.
You have the choice to change your situation. You can choose to workout, eat clean, groom yourself properly and dress well.
Your physical appearance is more than your body, face and clothing.
- Teeth
- Style
- Walk
- Clothing
- Smile
If you have a bad attitude, guess what; everyone knows it because it's written all over your face. If you're somewhat attractive, your bad attitude is making you slightly less attractive. More importantly, all of the people around who have a positive mindset; you are actively repelling them. They don't like your energy. They can feel the negativity oozing off of your facial expression.
Introduce yourself properly. Say more than Hi, or Hey, or Hey There. How is anyone supposed to differenciate you when that's all you have to say?
It's easier than you think. It's okay to start with Hello, Hey, or Hi; however, you need to follow that up immediately with something intersting about yourself, or an observation about the day, your surroundings, or basically, anything that makes you sound like a semi-interesting human.
End the introduction with a question so the person on the other side of the text has something to think about and respond to.
- Dive bar
- Rooftop bar
- Bowling Alley
- One of the best ways to meet a woman at a bar or a restaurant with a bar or any establishment with a bar, bowling alley, what have you, you don't have to be there long and you shouldn't be. Most guys linger forever the entire night and pick up zero women. They leave with no numbers in their pocket and it's okay as a man to leave with no numbers but there's really no reason to linger. If you're in an establishment for 45 minutes to an hour and a woman hasn't approached you or hasn't made eye contact with you so that you can approach her, then what are you still doing there? You could have hit three or four places in one night and increased your chances several-fold. Anyhow, once you are at a bar, don't rush in and buy a bunch of shots or beers or wine and start pounding the alcohol like a loser. Order some protein. Order food and eat it and enjoy and people watch. Don't stare but people watch. Let the women stare at you. When a woman is in your vicinity and she's looking your way but not looking right at you, she's looking at you. So look the other way. Pay attention to some other things and you'll start to realize that she's actually looking at you. Women place themselves in strategic locations for a reason. If she's in a particular location so that she can look at you through the side of her eye, she's looking at you. She wouldn't be standing there otherwise. Women know what they're doing. If she didn't mean to be looking at you, she would have placed herself in a location where her eyes never actually look at you or her eyes cannot accidentally see you. They place themselves in a location where they can accidentally see you without being obvious. Women are very subtle. So anyway, if a woman hasn't done that within an hour, why are you still there? Enjoy your food. And the moment a cute woman comes to the bar to order drinks for her friends, that's when you order the same drink that she's having. You order the same shot she's having. The same shot that she's ordering for all of her friends. And now you place yourself at the bar next to her. Not too close. Don't make it too obvious. Don't be creepy. But then you find a way to enter a conversation with this woman. And then eventually, if it's obvious that she's not creeped out, then you ask what her name is. And now you shake her hand. Let her extend her hand first, though. Now you guys have actually touched. Don't discount that one touch. It means a lot to a woman. Now, just be friendly and be normal. You don't have to do anything. When she starts talking, give her eye contact like you would any normal person. Have the shot. Ask her what the shot was again, so that you can remember it. Maybe write it down. Maybe don't. It doesn't really matter. The point was that you were having a conversation. If she's into you, she'll ask for your phone number. Just walk away. Go back to your table. And as she leaves with her drinks, she'll ask for your number if she wants it. You don't have to do anything else. If it doesn't happen, keep it moving. Go to the next spot. Let it happen there.